LOving your best life.

How do you learn to love the life you live?  How can you go from existing, to living, to loving your life? Here are a few places to start. * LOVE yourself. Pay attention to what you say to yourself and about yourself. Accept the compliment someone gives you and dont blow yourself off. Say Read more about LOving your best life.[…]

No justice, Just-us.

A little white lie, what an oxymoron. We know the problems , but what are the solutions? There are plenty of things I could write about, but certain things I like to keep in-house and privy to my own people. In other words, theres a lot i want to say to black people- I just Read more about No justice, Just-us.[…]


2 Black Eyes for your pretty face!

  What do you tell a heaux with two black eyes? Nothing! because you’ve already told her twice. Okay, thats a twisted joke, but sh!t actually does get real like that in some spaces. If you read the post above and the caption below, that sums up tonight’s show. The Queen’s special guest is Domestic Read more about 2 Black Eyes for your pretty face![…]


New school loves old School; No rivalry

Have you noticed how new school songs use snippets of old school lyrics? Or just remix the song in all together? History repeats itself and music transcends all genders and races. White music? Black music? Music has no color!   Music unites us, heals us and it tells the story for us when we cant Read more about New school loves old School; No rivalry[…]


The Love Jones Episode

This love has caught me off guard like an unexpected pregnancy Unaware of its occurrence, This love has blinded me, it binded me and some how it reminded me of the deaf, dumb, and blind that I used to be, that would’ve never let me Envy thee Young, aloof and in love that you now Read more about The Love Jones Episode[…]


I love you! You’re perfect! Now Change

I love you! You’re Perfect! Now Change! I remember when I first grew in love. I’d watch him while he slept and adore him while he snored. My soul would say to his “I love you.”  With those perfect pearly whites and soup cooler lips, between deep breathing, I’d whisper to him, “you’re perfect.” After Read more about I love you! You’re perfect! Now Change[…]


Birth Control, A Mans Responsibility

“Pop!Pop!Pop ( the sound of popcorn) ! Pop,pop!pop! She’s popping babies out like popcorn. Every time you turn around she has a baby on the way.  How many different baby’s Daddy’s does she have?  She’s just nasty.” We sure know how to judge women, we sure know how to talk about them. As if having Read more about Birth Control, A Mans Responsibility[…]


Debbie Downer.

I had the privilege of viewing the prerecording for this show entitled Debbie Downer.  The Queen of Hearts and her guests spoke candidly about their personal struggles with depression.  While the root causes were similar, the solutions differed. From prayer, to therapy, to accountability partners, there was no one-solution-fits-all rememedy; as one young lady pointed Read more about Debbie Downer.[…]